As survivors of sexual assault, we know all too well the devastating impact that sexual violence can have on our lives. However, for many individuals who have not experienced it firsthand, the definitions of terms like rape and sexual harassment may be unclear or misunderstood. In this blog post, we’ll explore these definitions in detail, shedding light on the pervasive nature of sexual violence and its various forms.
Rape:
Rape is a form of sexual assault characterized by non-consensual sexual penetration or intercourse. This includes vaginal, anal, or oral penetration achieved by physical force, coercion, manipulation, or incapacitation. According to the U.S. Department of Justice, rape is the most underreported crime, with an estimated 63% of sexual assaults not being reported to law enforcement.
Sexual Harassment:
Sexual harassment encompasses unwelcome sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, or other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature that creates a hostile or offensive environment. This can include inappropriate comments, unwanted touching, leering, or explicit messages. Sexual harassment can occur in various settings, including workplaces, schools, and public spaces. According to a 2018 survey by the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, 81% of women and 43% of men reported experiencing sexual harassment in their lifetime.
Understanding Consent:
At the heart of both rape and sexual harassment is the issue of consent. Consent is the cornerstone of healthy and respectful sexual interactions, and it must be ongoing, mutual, and enthusiastic. It is essential to remember that consent cannot be given if a person is incapacitated due to drugs or alcohol, if they are underage, if they are coerced or pressured, or if they are in a position of power or authority over the other person. Consent is not merely the absence of a “no”; it is an active and enthusiastic “yes” that is freely given.
Statistics on Sexual Violence in America:
- According to the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN), an American is sexually assaulted every 68 seconds.
- In the United States, 1 in 5 women and 1 in 71 men will be raped during their lifetime.
- Approximately 1 in 3 women and 1 in 6 men have experienced sexual violence other than rape in their lifetime.
- LGBTQ+ individuals, people with disabilities, and individuals from marginalized communities are disproportionately affected by sexual violence.
- The World Health Organization estimates that 35 percent of women have been assaulted by a nonpartner and nearly 70 percent have been victimized by an intimate partner.
- Factoring in unreported rapes, only about 6% of rapists ever serve a day in jail. If a rape is reported, there is a 50% chance of an arrest. If an arrest is made, there is an 80% chance of prosecution. If there is a prosecution, there is a 58% chance of conviction (Central MN sexual assault center).
Understanding the definitions of rape and sexual harassment is essential for creating awareness, supporting survivors, and preventing further instances of sexual violence. As survivors, advocates, and allies, it is incumbent upon us to educate ourselves and others about these issues, challenge harmful attitudes and behaviors, and work towards creating safer and more inclusive communities. Together, let us strive to foster a culture of consent, respect, and accountability, where survivors are believed, supported, and empowered.
With love and solidarity,
-M
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